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Identity and trading

What happens when being a trader becomes part of who you are, so losses feel like personal verdicts and changing approach feels like giving up on yourself.

Identity raises the stakes on every result. A bad quarter stops being a business outcome and becomes evidence about your worth, which brings in shame, secrecy, and defensiveness - none of which help you read a chart.

It also makes it hard to stop. Reducing size, taking a job, or quitting a method all threaten a self-image that has been announced to other people, so traders persist for reasons that have nothing to do with expected value. See grit-vs-stubbornness.

Keep some separation. Describe what you do rather than what you are, hold interests and income outside markets, and score behaviour rather than outcomes so that a losing week is a set of executions rather than a statement about you.

Related: fixed-mindset, shame-spiral, quit-point, comparison-trap

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